CUZ I'M ABOUT TO PULL MY HAIR OUT!!!!!!
Well that last couple of days have been "one of those days" when I'm about to lose it! I don't know what Brynlee's deal is, but she has been pretty naughty! She is usually really a pretty good two year old who is nice to her sister, polite to Dave and I, and very helpful....but then there is another side of her that tests me to my limits! Whenever I ask her to do anything she says "NO" and it is a fight to bathe her, a fight to get her dressed and do her hair, a fight to eat....ETC!! Where does this come from, and who took my nice girl???
So yesterday I had great plans to go to the gym in the morning. A lot of times we go between 10 and 11 where Brynlee goes to the kids club, and Halle sleeps in her stroller while I work out. Most days it works out well! They are really great there and let me bring my stoller in with Halle, and we either walk around the little track they have, or if she is sleeping I park her next to the machine that I am working at. Only in Utah, right! :) This will only happen until she is old enough to go to the kids club at 6 months. Anyway.....so this was my plan yesterday and I was trying to get us all ready to go, and Brynlee has a total meltdown. She was in the tub and was refusing to let me wash her hair and bum. So I was being just as stubborn and told her she didn't have to wash her hair, but she needed to wash her body. She sat in there crying, kicking and screaming for about the next 30 minutes because she wanted to get out, but I wouldn't let her until we had washed her. The kid doesn't give up! By the end of this whole saga I was completely worn out and ready to rip her head off and I knew we weren't going to make it to the gym. I was ready to go, but by then it was about 20 minutes from when Halle needed to eat again so SCRATCH that idea! AHHHH!
Then today I decided to take Brynlee to the library for reading time. They do one at 10:00 and at 11:00, so my first goal was to get there by 10:00. Well, we had another meltdown after bathtime and she wouldn't get dressed for me, so I let her go and watch Barney and decided we would go to the 11:00 reading. She was doing better and we got there on time, but the sweetness didn't last long. She wouldn't sit and listen, then someone sat where she wanted to sit and that made her cry. She wouldn't hold still and barely looked at the book! I seriously wonder sometimes if she has A.D.D. because she has about ZERO attention span most of the time. I think some of this is my fault because I don't read to her enough, but seriously it was my last straw!!!
So what did I do....I made Dave meet us for lunch to keep track of her and I had myself a fat Cafe Rio salad and a Dr. Pepper!! It's no wonder I'm fat!!! I feel a little better though, and hope that after her nap she will be a little better!
Wednesday, January 16, 2008
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Hey Tiffany,
I'm so sorry you're having all of these new problems with Brynlee, but it's so nice to hear that I'm not the only one with an angel who seemed to turn into a nightmare over night. I hope you can figure some things out to help you with her, and when you do, let me know so that I can do them too.
Emily =)
Oh Tiff, this is so funny when it's not your own. And even funnier b/c I have never seen Brynlee act naughty once. At least you know she is just like every other two yr old in the world & you are just like every other mom feeling like you want to kill her at times. :) And I love that you went & treated yourself for lunch - I'm totally all for that. PS Unless you gained like 500 lbs in the last two weeks - you are not fat my dear. You look great! Hang in there...
wow!! I'm sorry. I wish I had some insightful advice, but I've been pretty lucky in the meltdown/tantrum area. You should definitely indulge yourself and enjoy anything you'd like after any day like that.
P.S. I'm scared to have two. JK
ok---let's just say i loved your comments!! sorry that things are crazy and it's so hard. but seriously it's nice to hear that other people feel the same way i do and don't just sugar coat things and say "oh aren't kids just the greatest and sweetest, i just couldn't imagine life without them." and i'm like--heck i could. (don't take that the wrong way!) but sometimes it's so frustrating!! hang in there!thanks for being refreshing and honest! glad i'm not the only one with a CRAZY kid.
Tiff, I've been there myself alot the last couple of months...don't be too hard on yourself. I've had several days that have ended in eating ice cream and watching TV instead of working out. Sometimes moms need a time out too:)))
ahh tiff! Sorry yesterday was such a bugger! hopefully today was a little better! You're an AWESOME mom...you deserved that Cafe Rio! (YUM!)...and by the way, you're smokin hot! (NOT FAT!) :)
Hey Tiff, this is Damon. It must be the name b/c our little Brynlee has her moments too :) Her big thing now is that she wants to do EVERYTHING all by her self. She has a melt down if she doesn't even get to push the button to open the garage door. Drama. She is so dang funny though. If she wasn't so cute and funny, then I'm sure she wouldn't make it. Sounds like our little girls are two peas in a pod. Too funny.
O.K. Tiff, I just happen to be very well versed in the "meltdown" department. Ani is the QUEEN of meltdowns. I have actually started taking this parenting/how to handle meltdowns class that is really helping. If you are interested in it, give me a call for more info. Hang in there! You are not alone!
Hey Tiff...I know we don't know each other all that well but I sure know how you are feeling. Tori will be 14 tomorrow and kids still have meltdowns even as teenagers. Just smile and remember how lucky you are for such beautiful daughters and such a great husband.
First things first Miss Tiffany...you are NOT fat! Drink all the DP you want!
I totally know what you are going through. I have absolutely no good advice for you because I am yet to figure out anything that works. Tylee's thing is having her coat on in her car seat (or her shoes and socks). The second she gets in the car she thinks she needs to strip down. You can see all the problems this causes because I'm not always just going to one place and I'm not about to re-dress her everytime we stop. She has an absolute meltdown and I end up waisting a huge chunk of everyday just trying to be consistant by not allowing her to act that way. So...Good Luck!
Hey Tiff. I have had so many fun times with my girls, and so many times that sound like what you are going through. I love it when they do it in front of people, so they make you feel like a total dork. My mom has to tell me to let them win a little, and learn to compromise. For some reason if you make a deal where they feel like you get a little and you get a little, it works out great. (sometimes)I get to do this, and you get to do this.... like in the tub say, ok you get one more minute (set the timer) then she knows how long a minute really is... I really have no clue with my own kids, but my mom does give great advice.
Love you tons
Jill
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